Do you have a date on the phone that you know will likely end up in phone sex? That’s amazing. No, seriously, it is. I have been there many times. Some people don’t do anything to prepare for phone sex but it’s really nice if you do because it’s easier to have everything you need to set the mood you want.
So what does one do to prepare for phone sex? It depends on what kind of experience you want. I usually ask myself questions, make sure I have all the supplies I need, and create the right ambiance in my space.
It’s a good idea to ask yourself some questions before your date to clarify what you want to explore with your phone friend. Some suggestions of questions you could ask yourself are: Is it your first time having phone sex with this phone friend? What kinds of things do you want to talk about? Fantasies, role-playing, something else? What does your phone friend like during phone sex? All these questions help to set the room and your mind to what is best for you and your phone date.
There are some easy supplies that can make your life easier and you’re clean up fast. I like to have some towels and some oils ready just in case. It’s nice to have everything conveniently placed so I’m not scrambling to find it during the call, then I can concentrate on having fun.
Ambiance does a lot for a phone date as it basically sets the mood and tone of how things will go. For this I like to light some candles and set my lights low. I also incorporate music to my dates. Some of my phone friends like to take turns with me when it comes to the music and I love sharing that. Music really can help to learn more about one’s personality.
Preparing for phone sex doesn’t take too much of your time and can really make the experience better. Give it a whirl and see how you like it.
